"I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to"
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The pivot to “practical” and “daily” is Walker at her most strategically unsentimental. She’s not selling catharsis; she’s prescribing habit. That matters in a culture that loves symbolic breakthroughs more than boring repetition. By insisting on “some daily way,” she implies that racism and other inherited biases are less like opinions than like muscle memory: learned early, reinforced constantly, and undone only through deliberate practice.
The sharpest subtext sits in the closing clause: “differently than the way we were brought up to.” She points at socialization as the engine of fear, the home as the first institution, tradition as an unexamined curriculum. It’s also a quiet rebuke to nostalgia. If your upbringing taught you who to distrust, then loyalty to “how we were raised” can become loyalty to a lie.
Contextually, Walker’s work has long fused the personal with the political; this line continues that tradition by making inner reckoning a civic act, and making change less a grand conversion than a series of chosen re-sees.
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Walker, Alice. (2026, January 15). I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-we-have-to-own-the-fears-that-we-have-of-35347/
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Walker, Alice. "I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-we-have-to-own-the-fears-that-we-have-of-35347/.
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"I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-we-have-to-own-the-fears-that-we-have-of-35347/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.










