"I think we should look forward to death more than we do. Of course everybody hates to go to bed or miss anything, but dying is really the only chance we'll get to rest"
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Kennedy takes the oldest taboo in American life - death talk - and snaps it into the language of labor. "Look forward" is deliberately perverse: she borrows the upbeat diction of self-help and progress narratives, then aims it at the one thing no culture of hustle can spin. The joke is sharp, but it is not just a joke. She frames living as a kind of compulsory shift work: we "hate to go to bed" because sleep feels like surrender, like missing the action, like failing at the manic duty of being present and productive. Even rest has been moralized into something you have to earn.
The subtext lands harder given who she was. As a lawyer and a relentless feminist and civil-rights agitator, Kennedy spent her life fighting systems that exhaust you on purpose. In that context, "dying is really the only chance we'll get to rest" reads less like morbidity than an indictment: a society organized around endless struggle offers no dignified off-switch. If you are poor, Black, female, outspoken, the world does not merely demand effort; it punishes repose.
She also sneaks in a radically unsentimental consolation. No heaven pitch, no romantic afterlife, just the plainest human desire: to stop. By reducing death to rest, she strips it of sacred terror and turns it into something workers understand in their bones. It is a protest line disguised as a shrug: if the only guaranteed break is the final one, maybe the real scandal is how little rest the living are allowed.
The subtext lands harder given who she was. As a lawyer and a relentless feminist and civil-rights agitator, Kennedy spent her life fighting systems that exhaust you on purpose. In that context, "dying is really the only chance we'll get to rest" reads less like morbidity than an indictment: a society organized around endless struggle offers no dignified off-switch. If you are poor, Black, female, outspoken, the world does not merely demand effort; it punishes repose.
She also sneaks in a radically unsentimental consolation. No heaven pitch, no romantic afterlife, just the plainest human desire: to stop. By reducing death to rest, she strips it of sacred terror and turns it into something workers understand in their bones. It is a protest line disguised as a shrug: if the only guaranteed break is the final one, maybe the real scandal is how little rest the living are allowed.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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