"I think we're in a time when everyone's afraid to have sex. But I was raised being beautiful and healthy"
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Then she pivots: “But I was raised being beautiful and healthy.” It’s a disarming flex disguised as biography. The subtext is that comfort with sex is not just personal confidence; it’s classed, gendered, and frankly lucked into. Beauty and “health” function as social armor: they buy you permission to be sexual without being punished as harshly, to treat desire as something natural rather than dangerous. Milano, a celebrity who came up in an industry that monetizes attractiveness, is implicitly defending a worldview where sex is a normal extension of vitality, not a moral referendum.
The quote also reveals the generational seam. Someone raised in a pre-social-media fame machine (where boundaries were often blurred and “sexy” was career currency) is looking at today’s hyper-public consent vocabulary and feeling whiplash. It’s not a careful argument; it’s a tell. She’s asserting that fear is cultural, while her ease is upbringing - and the uneasy truth is how much “upbringing” here really means protection by status.
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Milano, Alyssa. (2026, January 17). I think we're in a time when everyone's afraid to have sex. But I was raised being beautiful and healthy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-were-in-a-time-when-everyones-afraid-to-37419/
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Milano, Alyssa. "I think we're in a time when everyone's afraid to have sex. But I was raised being beautiful and healthy." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-were-in-a-time-when-everyones-afraid-to-37419/.
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"I think we're in a time when everyone's afraid to have sex. But I was raised being beautiful and healthy." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-were-in-a-time-when-everyones-afraid-to-37419/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








