"I think when two people get together, their past is their past. Their reputations are reputations. You can only take someone the way you find them... on face value. I think that was how we were both, the way we were"
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The repetition does a lot of work. “Past,” “reputations,” “face value” form a chain of refusals: no forensic accounting, no moral audit, no crowd-sourced verdict. Warne frames judgment itself as a kind of category error. Reputation is merely a story that follows you; it’s not the person standing in front of you. That’s an athlete’s mindset applied to intimacy: focus on what’s happening in the present, ignore the heckling from the stands.
The subtext is protective, maybe even slightly defensive. “You can only take someone the way you find them” sounds generous, but it also lets him dodge specifics. If you don’t revisit the past, you don’t have to litigate it. The final line - “the way we were” - adds a soft nostalgia, suggesting a partnership founded on mutual nonjudgment, or at least mutual exhaustion with being judged. In a celebrity ecosystem that turns history into a weapon, Warne offers a counter-move: stop keeping score, start watching what’s actually on the field.
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Warne, Shane. (2026, January 16). I think when two people get together, their past is their past. Their reputations are reputations. You can only take someone the way you find them... on face value. I think that was how we were both, the way we were. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-when-two-people-get-together-their-past-121443/
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Warne, Shane. "I think when two people get together, their past is their past. Their reputations are reputations. You can only take someone the way you find them... on face value. I think that was how we were both, the way we were." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-when-two-people-get-together-their-past-121443/.
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"I think when two people get together, their past is their past. Their reputations are reputations. You can only take someone the way you find them... on face value. I think that was how we were both, the way we were." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-when-two-people-get-together-their-past-121443/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




