"I think women are concerned too much with their clothes. Men don't really care that much about women's clothes. If they like a girl, chances are they'll like her clothes"
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The intent is reassurance with an edge. Lamarr offers a permission slip to step off the hamster wheel of self-surveillance, but she also exposes the asymmetry underneath it: women are socialized to anticipate judgment in high resolution; men are allowed to remain pleasantly, even indulgently, low-information. “If they like a girl…” is the tell. The subject isn’t fashion, it’s power. Male preference becomes the baseline reality around which women are encouraged to optimize.
There’s also a quiet critique of romantic “common sense.” Lamarr frames men’s attention as blunt and forgiving, which can feel liberating, yet it smuggles in a narrower logic: the woman is still being evaluated, just at the level of “girl” as an object of liking. In an era when actresses were meticulously styled and marketed, the comment reads like backstage candor - the star reminding you that the spectacle is costly, and that much of that cost is borne by women for diminishing returns.
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Lamarr, Hedy. (2026, January 15). I think women are concerned too much with their clothes. Men don't really care that much about women's clothes. If they like a girl, chances are they'll like her clothes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-women-are-concerned-too-much-with-their-140957/
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"I think women are concerned too much with their clothes. Men don't really care that much about women's clothes. If they like a girl, chances are they'll like her clothes." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-women-are-concerned-too-much-with-their-140957/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.







