"I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive"
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The subtext is a refusal of two familiar traps. One is the “cool girl” script: strength as a rejection of softness, style, romance, beauty, or caretaking. The other is the “feminine but harmless” script: being palatable, pretty, and nonthreatening. Meester insists you can claim femininity without turning it into submission, and you can claim strength without performing masculinity. That’s not just personal branding; it’s a rebuke to an industry that sells “strong female characters” as women who fight like men while looking flawless, and to a fandom economy that rewards women for choosing a side.
Context matters: coming from an actress shaped by 2000s/early-2010s pop culture, it reads like a corrective to an era that routinely mocked “girly” women as shallow and treated empowerment as a makeover with edge. The intent is not to invent a new definition of feminism, but to widen the room and deny gatekeepers the satisfaction of making femininity a liability.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
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| Source | Interview with Elle (approx. 2011), on strength and femininity |
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Meester, Leighton. (2026, February 14). I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/
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Meester, Leighton. "I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/.
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"I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.







