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Daily Inspiration Quote by Leighton Meester

"I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive"

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Leighton Meester’s line lands because it treats “strong” and “feminine” as labels other people try to force into a cage match. The phrasing is plainspoken, almost casual, but the target is loud: a culture that still loves a binary, especially when it comes to women. “I think” softens the delivery without softening the argument; it’s a strategic cushion that lets her critique the policing of femininity while staying within the conversational tone expected of a mainstream actress. Then she drops the clincher - “aren’t mutually exclusive” - borrowing the language of logic to puncture a social myth.

The subtext is a refusal of two familiar traps. One is the “cool girl” script: strength as a rejection of softness, style, romance, beauty, or caretaking. The other is the “feminine but harmless” script: being palatable, pretty, and nonthreatening. Meester insists you can claim femininity without turning it into submission, and you can claim strength without performing masculinity. That’s not just personal branding; it’s a rebuke to an industry that sells “strong female characters” as women who fight like men while looking flawless, and to a fandom economy that rewards women for choosing a side.

Context matters: coming from an actress shaped by 2000s/early-2010s pop culture, it reads like a corrective to an era that routinely mocked “girly” women as shallow and treated empowerment as a makeover with edge. The intent is not to invent a new definition of feminism, but to widen the room and deny gatekeepers the satisfaction of making femininity a liability.

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SourceInterview with Elle (approx. 2011), on strength and femininity
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Meester, Leighton. (2026, February 14). I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/

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Meester, Leighton. "I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think you can be a strong woman and still be feminine. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-you-can-be-a-strong-woman-and-still-be-185336/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.

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Leighton Meester

Leighton Meester (born April 9, 1986) is a Actress from USA.

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