"I thought I saw him for what he was-or what I thought he was. And he was talented, no doubt about that. But, he thought his talent was based on misery and that if he became happy it would just go. He believed that"
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The quote’s engine is the repeated “thought.” He thinks his talent is “based on misery”; she thinks she saw him clearly; the whole relationship is mediated by competing narratives. That’s the subtext: talent isn’t just a skill here, it’s a story someone tells to justify staying broken. Misery becomes a credential, a kind of artistic proof-of-work, and happiness gets reframed as betrayal - of the art, of the self, maybe even of the audience who expects the wound.
Wray also refuses the romanticization. “Talented, no doubt about that” grants the gift while stripping it of mystique. The final fragment, “He believed that,” lands like a verdict: the real antagonist isn’t a lack of talent or love, but a belief system. It’s a snapshot of how self-mythology can become a cage - and how close observation can still fail to pick the lock.
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| Topic | Art |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wray, Fay. (2026, January 17). I thought I saw him for what he was-or what I thought he was. And he was talented, no doubt about that. But, he thought his talent was based on misery and that if he became happy it would just go. He believed that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-i-saw-him-for-what-he-was-or-what-i-46494/
Chicago Style
Wray, Fay. "I thought I saw him for what he was-or what I thought he was. And he was talented, no doubt about that. But, he thought his talent was based on misery and that if he became happy it would just go. He believed that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-i-saw-him-for-what-he-was-or-what-i-46494/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I thought I saw him for what he was-or what I thought he was. And he was talented, no doubt about that. But, he thought his talent was based on misery and that if he became happy it would just go. He believed that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-i-saw-him-for-what-he-was-or-what-i-46494/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




