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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jessica Alba

"I thought it was my job to give all the boys their first kiss"

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There is a mischievous little grenade tucked inside that line: it dresses up as cute nostalgia, then quietly detonates a whole set of expectations about girlhood, desirability, and performance. Coming from Jessica Alba, a celebrity whose early career was shadowed by the industry’s obsession with her “hotness,” the quote reads less like a literal mission statement and more like a snapshot of how young women are trained to narrate themselves as services rendered.

The phrasing matters. “My job” turns intimacy into labor, something clocked in and completed, not felt. “All the boys” widens it into an audience. She’s not talking about one crush; she’s describing a role in a social ecosystem where a girl’s value can get measured in access, initiation, and being the one who confers experience. The “first kiss” detail adds a veneer of innocence, but it also signals status: firsts are trophies, and she’s positioning herself as the gatekeeper of them.

As a cultural artifact, it lands in the late-’90s/early-2000s vibe where “empowered” was often translated as “game, flirtatious, unbothered,” even when the script was written by peer pressure and male approval. Alba’s delivery (often in interviews, framed as a cheeky anecdote) lets her control the story: she gets to be the agent, the funny one, the confident one. The subtext is that confidence sometimes arrives as a survival strategy - if the world is going to treat you like a fantasy, you may as well seize the mic and make the fantasy sound like your idea.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Alba, Jessica. (2026, January 16). I thought it was my job to give all the boys their first kiss. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-it-was-my-job-to-give-all-the-boys-90619/

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Alba, Jessica. "I thought it was my job to give all the boys their first kiss." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-it-was-my-job-to-give-all-the-boys-90619/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I thought it was my job to give all the boys their first kiss." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-it-was-my-job-to-give-all-the-boys-90619/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Jessica Alba

Jessica Alba (born April 28, 1981) is a Actress from USA.

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