"I thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. However, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions"
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The phrase “my employer” does heavy cultural work. It’s not a date gone awkward; it’s an institutional relationship where refusal has consequences. Hill’s careful diction - “social suggestions” instead of “advances,” “ask me out” instead of “harass” - mirrors the rhetorical tightrope she was forced to walk: serious enough to be understood, restrained enough not to be dismissed as “hysterical” or vindictive. That restraint is the subtext: the burden of proof is already on her, so she narrates in the mildest terms available.
Context matters here because Hill’s public story became a national stress test for how America hears women who name workplace coercion, especially when the man is powerful and the stakes are reputational. The repetition (“continued... several occasions”) isn’t just persistence; it’s a strategy. It reframes “no” as negotiable, turning her boundary into an opening bid. Hill’s regret reads less like personal disappointment than institutional recognition: professionalism won’t protect you when the other party is insulated by power.
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Hill, Anita. (2026, January 15). I thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. However, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-by-saying-no-and-explaining-my-140236/
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Hill, Anita. "I thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. However, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-by-saying-no-and-explaining-my-140236/.
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"I thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. However, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-by-saying-no-and-explaining-my-140236/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





