"I thought that if you come across as a freak, there will be some kind of distance. Maybe the distance became excessive. I realized that people were afraid of me without knowing me"
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The line turns on “distance.” At first it’s a chosen buffer, a way to keep strangers from assuming intimacy. Then it “became excessive,” which is Kretschmann quietly confessing that persona can harden into reputation. The public doesn’t just watch the performance; it begins to treat the person as an extension of the roles, the face, the press photos, the vibe. Fear becomes a default setting, a shortcut that spares people the work of curiosity.
“I realized that people were afraid of me without knowing me” lands because it’s both plaintive and clinical. He isn’t asking for pity; he’s diagnosing a social reflex: we protect ourselves by sorting others into categories fast. In celebrity culture, those categories are amplified by casting, marketing, and gossip until they feel like truth. Kretschmann’s subtext is a warning to anyone who builds mystique for safety: the mask can keep you safe, but it also trains the world to keep its hands off. And eventually, that includes the kind of connection you thought you were only postponing.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kretschmann, Thomas. (2026, January 16). I thought that if you come across as a freak, there will be some kind of distance. Maybe the distance became excessive. I realized that people were afraid of me without knowing me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-if-you-come-across-as-a-freak-120712/
Chicago Style
Kretschmann, Thomas. "I thought that if you come across as a freak, there will be some kind of distance. Maybe the distance became excessive. I realized that people were afraid of me without knowing me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-if-you-come-across-as-a-freak-120712/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I thought that if you come across as a freak, there will be some kind of distance. Maybe the distance became excessive. I realized that people were afraid of me without knowing me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-thought-that-if-you-come-across-as-a-freak-120712/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



