"I tolerate my faults but not at all other people's"
About this Quote
The line works because it collapses two impulses that usually stay hidden. First, the self-protective tenderness we grant our own messes: we contextualize, excuse, reframe. Second, the harsh clarity we apply to others, where context feels like alibi and flaws read as character. Claudel doesn’t try to resolve the contradiction; she spotlights it, almost daring the listener to admit the same private math. There’s a sly, bitter humor here too: “tolerate” suggests she’s not even generous to herself, just resigned. Yet her tolerance stops at her own borders, which is both petty and painfully human.
In Claudel’s context, the sting sharpens. A woman artist working under intense scrutiny, orbiting the gravitational force of Rodin, later brutalized by family control and institutionalization, she lived in a world where judgment had real consequences. The quote can read as armor: if she is condemned anyway, she’ll at least reserve the right to condemn back. It also reads like an artist’s perfectionism metastasizing into social life, where other people’s imperfections become aesthetic offenses.
It’s not a plea for sympathy; it’s a self-indictment with teeth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Unverified source: Questionnaire de Proust (manuscrit), 16 mai 1888 (Camille Claudel, 1888)
Evidence: The line appears in Camille Claudel’s completed “Questionnaire de Proust,” dated 16 May 1888. In the response to the prompt “For what fault have you most toleration?” she wrote: “Je tolère tous mes défauts mais pas du tout ceux des autres.” This is the direct French original behind the English qu... Other candidates (1) Camille Claudel (Camille Claudel) compilation31.3% istics related to the ages of existence childhood maturity and the perspective o |
| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on February 11, 2025 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Claudel, Camille. (2026, January 11). I tolerate my faults but not at all other people's. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tolerate-my-faults-but-not-at-all-other-peoples-77213/
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Claudel, Camille. "I tolerate my faults but not at all other people's." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tolerate-my-faults-but-not-at-all-other-peoples-77213/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I tolerate my faults but not at all other people's." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tolerate-my-faults-but-not-at-all-other-peoples-77213/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









