"I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling"
About this Quote
Then she swerves: “now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling.” The phrase lands with a strange brightness that isn’t exactly relief. It reads like the afterglow of survival, the suspicious calm after a storm, or even the chemical hush of intoxication. “Decent and good” is deliberately plain, almost moralistic language, as if she’s parodying the idea that happiness is wholesome and orderly. That modesty is the point: joy isn’t a grand redemption here; it’s a wave that can drown you the same way sorrow can. The punchline exposes how close together despair and euphoria sit when you’ve lived in chronic pain and emotional volatility.
Kahlo’s context makes the line cut deeper: a life shaped by physical injury, medical trauma, and tumultuous love, all of it metabolized into images where the body becomes confession and battlefield. The humor doesn’t soften the suffering; it’s a survival technique that refuses sentimentality.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Mermaid (Eileen Cronin, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9780393089011 · ID: 6yGwAgAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... Frida Kahlo's paintings drew me in , but her words described my life : “ I never paint dreams or ... I tried to drown my sorrows , but the bastards learned how to swim , and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling ... |
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Kahlo, Frida. (2026, February 26). I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-drown-my-sorrows-but-the-bastards-31275/
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Kahlo, Frida. "I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling." FixQuotes. February 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-drown-my-sorrows-but-the-bastards-31275/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-drown-my-sorrows-but-the-bastards-31275/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.









