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Creativity Quote by Lauryn Hill

"I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others"

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It takes a particular kind of nerve to confess not just to wrongdoing, but to the ego mechanics behind it. Lauryn Hill isn’t offering a tidy redemption arc here; she’s exposing the wiring: control as a substitute for safety, resentment as a way to keep score when you feel unseen, unforgiveness as a private form of power. The line lands because it refuses the usual celebrity confession script where the “mistakes” are vague and the accountability is performative. These are specific sins of the spirit, and she names them like someone who’s finally tired of protecting the version of herself that needed them.

The real knife twist is the asymmetry: “I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn’t forgive others.” That’s not hypocrisy as a gotcha; it’s a portrait of emotional scarcity. Forgiveness becomes something to receive, not something to practice, a kind of moral consumerism. Hill’s phrasing turns the spotlight inward without self-pity, and that’s why it reads as credible rather than strategic.

In context, it also tracks with the pressure cooker of her career: an artist mythologized as prophet and punished for refusing the industry’s choreography. When you’re constantly managed, misunderstood, and commodified, the impulse to manage others can feel like self-defense. The quote doesn’t ask us to excuse her; it asks us to recognize the pattern: hurt hardens into control, control into isolation, and isolation into a hunger for mercy you haven’t learned to give.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Lauryn. (2026, January 17). I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/

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Hill, Lauryn. "I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Lauryn Hill (born May 26, 1975) is a Musician from USA.

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