"I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others"
About this Quote
The real knife twist is the asymmetry: “I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn’t forgive others.” That’s not hypocrisy as a gotcha; it’s a portrait of emotional scarcity. Forgiveness becomes something to receive, not something to practice, a kind of moral consumerism. Hill’s phrasing turns the spotlight inward without self-pity, and that’s why it reads as credible rather than strategic.
In context, it also tracks with the pressure cooker of her career: an artist mythologized as prophet and punished for refusing the industry’s choreography. When you’re constantly managed, misunderstood, and commodified, the impulse to manage others can feel like self-defense. The quote doesn’t ask us to excuse her; it asks us to recognize the pattern: hurt hardens into control, control into isolation, and isolation into a hunger for mercy you haven’t learned to give.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Lauryn. (2026, January 17). I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/
Chicago Style
Hill, Lauryn. "I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I tried to manipulate and control people, and I harbored resentment. I wanted to be forgiven, but I wouldn't forgive others." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tried-to-manipulate-and-control-people-and-i-75875/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




