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Wit & Attitude Quote by Bill Veeck

"I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous"

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Self-deception is the only con that can’t be audited, and Bill Veeck knew it. Coming from a baseball owner famous for stunts, promotions, and a certain showman’s willingness to “romance” the crowd, the line draws a bright ethical boundary: spin is a tool; self-spin is a trap. Veeck isn’t confessing to dishonesty so much as mapping the difference between performance and delusion. You can sell a story to the public, to a rival, even to a player across the negotiating table. The danger starts when you start believing your own press releases.

The intent is managerial and personal at once. In Veeck’s world, confidence is currency: you have to project inevitability to build a franchise, move tickets, survive bad seasons. But he’s warning that optimism without reckoning becomes policy, and policy becomes reality. “Devastating” hints at the wreckage leaders cause when they mistake wishful thinking for strategy: bad trades, ignored injuries, bloated budgets, and the quiet moral corrosion of blaming everyone else when the fantasy collapses.

The subtext is also about agency. Romancing someone else is, in his phrasing, almost courteous: a mutual dance where everyone knows there’s theater involved. Fooling yourself is “dangerous” because it removes the last accountable witness. Veeck’s cynicism is pragmatic, not nihilistic: he’s arguing that the only sustainable advantage in a spectacle-driven business is a hard, unflattering intimacy with the facts.

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Veeck, Bill. (2026, January 17). I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/

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Veeck, Bill. "I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Bill Veeck (February 9, 1914 - January 2, 1986) was a Businessman from USA.

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