"I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous"
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The intent is managerial and personal at once. In Veeck’s world, confidence is currency: you have to project inevitability to build a franchise, move tickets, survive bad seasons. But he’s warning that optimism without reckoning becomes policy, and policy becomes reality. “Devastating” hints at the wreckage leaders cause when they mistake wishful thinking for strategy: bad trades, ignored injuries, bloated budgets, and the quiet moral corrosion of blaming everyone else when the fantasy collapses.
The subtext is also about agency. Romancing someone else is, in his phrasing, almost courteous: a mutual dance where everyone knows there’s theater involved. Fooling yourself is “dangerous” because it removes the last accountable witness. Veeck’s cynicism is pragmatic, not nihilistic: he’s arguing that the only sustainable advantage in a spectacle-driven business is a hard, unflattering intimacy with the facts.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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Veeck, Bill. (2026, January 17). I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/
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Veeck, Bill. "I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I try not to kid myself. You know, I don't mind romancing someone else, but to fool yourself is pretty devastating and dangerous." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-not-to-kid-myself-you-know-i-dont-mind-49317/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.






