"I try to be feminine, yet intellectual and smart at the same time. You don't see enough of that"
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The intent reads as both aspiration and pushback. She's claiming a lane where femininity isn't treated as evidence against competence, and intelligence isn't punished as unfeminine. That "yet" does a lot of work: it reveals the cultural expectation that these traits should be mutually exclusive, an assumption so common it becomes invisible until someone names it.
Context matters here because actresses are asked to sell likability and legibility. Being "feminine" can be a career requirement, while being "intellectual and smart" is often tolerated only if it doesn't disrupt the fantasy. De Rossi's statement is a small act of self-definition, but also a commentary on the industry's limited imagination: women are allowed range, but only if they apologize for it first.
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Rossi, Portia de. (2026, January 17). I try to be feminine, yet intellectual and smart at the same time. You don't see enough of that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-be-feminine-yet-intellectual-and-smart-77489/
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Rossi, Portia de. "I try to be feminine, yet intellectual and smart at the same time. You don't see enough of that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-be-feminine-yet-intellectual-and-smart-77489/.
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"I try to be feminine, yet intellectual and smart at the same time. You don't see enough of that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-be-feminine-yet-intellectual-and-smart-77489/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





