"I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on"
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The subtext is that “making a move” is less about bravado than about risk management. Notes become a safe proxy for face-to-face rejection, letting him outsource the most vulnerable part of desire to paper. If she writes a page back, it’s not merely interest; it’s time, attention, and narrative energy - the currency of adolescent intimacy. Two words, by contrast, aren’t just a “no.” They’re a refusal to play the game on the same emotional field.
As an actor who came up in an era of teen TV and carefully managed public images, Werkheiser’s approach also reads like early training in audience feedback: you send out a big signal and study the response. It’s sweet, a little strategic, and quietly self-protective. The real intent isn’t manipulation; it’s permission - to proceed only when enthusiasm shows up in full sentences.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Werkheiser, Devon. (2026, January 16). I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/
Chicago Style
Werkheiser, Devon. "I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







