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Art & Creativity Quote by Devon Werkheiser

"I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on"

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Devon Werkheiser is describing a low-tech consent algorithm from the pre-DM era, and it’s disarmingly honest about what young flirting actually feels like: a constant fear of misreading the room. The “page-long note” isn’t just quaint nostalgia; it’s a deliberate bid for asymmetry. He over-invests first, then watches whether the other person matches the effort. In a world where boys are often socialized to “just go for it,” he’s outlining an alternate script: don’t push; test for reciprocity.

The subtext is that “making a move” is less about bravado than about risk management. Notes become a safe proxy for face-to-face rejection, letting him outsource the most vulnerable part of desire to paper. If she writes a page back, it’s not merely interest; it’s time, attention, and narrative energy - the currency of adolescent intimacy. Two words, by contrast, aren’t just a “no.” They’re a refusal to play the game on the same emotional field.

As an actor who came up in an era of teen TV and carefully managed public images, Werkheiser’s approach also reads like early training in audience feedback: you send out a big signal and study the response. It’s sweet, a little strategic, and quietly self-protective. The real intent isn’t manipulation; it’s permission - to proceed only when enthusiasm shows up in full sentences.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Werkheiser, Devon. (2026, January 16). I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/

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Werkheiser, Devon. "I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I try to gauge whether a girl likes me before I make a move. I would write a page-long note to a girl.If she wrote a whole page back, I knew she liked me, too. If she wrote back like two words, then I figured I'd move on." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-gauge-whether-a-girl-likes-me-before-i-104210/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Devon Werkheiser

Devon Werkheiser (born March 8, 1991) is a Actor from USA.

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