"I try to live the moment and not obey laws, rules, conventions, or norms; to react to a sensation, a feeling, or an emotion. You can't program emotion"
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The subtext is defensive as much as romantic. “Laws, rules, conventions, or norms” reads like a ladder of pressures, from explicit authority down to the invisible social grammar that tells women what’s “acceptable.” By stacking them, she suggests the constraint is totalizing; by rejecting them, she claims a private sovereignty. It’s also an aesthetic stance. Parillaud’s most iconic roles trade on volatility and edge - characters who feel dangerous because they’re not easily legible. “React to a sensation” isn’t just personal philosophy; it’s a method for generating unpredictability on screen.
The closer, “You can’t program emotion,” lands as both credo and critique. It pushes back against any system that tries to standardize human response - directors, institutions, even the self-help impulse to optimize feelings. The line works because it refuses the tidy lie that authenticity can be engineered, insisting instead on mess, risk, and the irreducible glitchiness of being alive.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Parillaud, Anne. (2026, January 16). I try to live the moment and not obey laws, rules, conventions, or norms; to react to a sensation, a feeling, or an emotion. You can't program emotion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-live-the-moment-and-not-obey-laws-rules-122757/
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Parillaud, Anne. "I try to live the moment and not obey laws, rules, conventions, or norms; to react to a sensation, a feeling, or an emotion. You can't program emotion." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-live-the-moment-and-not-obey-laws-rules-122757/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I try to live the moment and not obey laws, rules, conventions, or norms; to react to a sensation, a feeling, or an emotion. You can't program emotion." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-live-the-moment-and-not-obey-laws-rules-122757/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













