"I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated, but I can't worry about what everyone's going to think"
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The intent is to separate conduct from reputation management. Principal positions kindness as an internal standard, not a performance calibrated to approval. That distinction matters because celebrity culture invites a cynical read of all politeness as branding. Her phrasing pushes back: treat people well because it’s who you are, not because it will play well in the room or on the page.
The subtext is that “everyone” is a trap. In Hollywood, everyone includes fans, tabloids, agents, co-stars, executives, and strangers with opinions that carry disproportionate weight. Trying to satisfy that crowd turns a person into a weather vane. Principal’s sentence implies she’s seen how quickly pleasing becomes contorting, how “being liked” can start dictating choices, relationships, even self-image.
Contextually, coming from an actress who moved through highly scrutinized, image-driven decades of American entertainment, it reads as hard-earned: a public-facing person insisting on private autonomy. Not innocence. Strategy.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Principal, Victoria. (2026, January 17). I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated, but I can't worry about what everyone's going to think. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-treat-people-the-way-i-would-like-to-be-66196/
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Principal, Victoria. "I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated, but I can't worry about what everyone's going to think." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-treat-people-the-way-i-would-like-to-be-66196/.
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"I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated, but I can't worry about what everyone's going to think." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-treat-people-the-way-i-would-like-to-be-66196/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






