"I try to write parts for women that are as complicated and interesting as women actually are"
About this Quote
Ephrons intent is craft-level and political at once. On the surface, she is talking about good writing: specificity, contradiction, appetite, bad timing, self-deception. Underneath is a rebuke of scripts that flatten women into functions (the girlfriend, the wife, the victim, the prize) rather than people who generate plot instead of merely absorbing it. The line also anticipates a familiar defensive move: the insistence that complex women are "unrelatable". Ephron meets that with a shrugging realism: women are already complicated; art is simply catching up.
Context sharpens the edge. Ephron wrote during a period when Hollywoods default female interiority was either saintly or shrewish, with romance often serving as containment. Her best work smuggled mess into mainstream formats: women who are funny and hungry and petty, capable of tenderness without becoming a lesson. The quotes power is its insistence that representation isnt a quota; its a fidelity test. If the character feels simple, its not because women are. Its because the writer took the shortcut.
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"I try to write parts for women that are as complicated and interesting as women actually are." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-try-to-write-parts-for-women-that-are-as-79952/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.



