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Love & Passion Quote by Edward Gibbon

"I understand by this passion the union of desire, friendship, and tenderness, which is inflamed by a single female, which prefers her to the rest of her sex, and which seeks her possession as the supreme or the sole happiness of our being"

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Gibbon defines love the way an Enlightenment historian might diagram a state: as a coalition of forces, a hierarchy of loyalties, and a claim to sovereignty. “Union of desire, friendship, and tenderness” isn’t a swoon; it’s a tidy political settlement between appetite, companionship, and care. The phrasing is clinical on purpose. By treating passion as a composite, he makes it legible to reason, as if the heart were another empire whose borders can be mapped.

Then comes the sharper subtext: love as selection and exclusion. “Inflamed by a single female” reduces the beloved to a catalyst, almost an element in an experiment, while “prefers her to the rest of her sex” frames romance as ranking - a competitive economy of women, with one elevated and the others implicitly interchangeable. It’s not just affection; it’s a vote, a verdict, a narrowing of the world.

The most revealing move is the final clause: “seeks her possession.” Gibbon isn’t merely describing intensity; he’s exposing the period’s default grammar of intimacy, where devotion slides into ownership without sounding, to him, like a category error. “Supreme or the sole happiness” ups the stakes to near-theological absolutism, suggesting a modern-sounding obsession couched in patrician prose.

Context matters: late 18th-century Britain is negotiating between Enlightenment rationalism and a rising culture of sensibility. Gibbon’s sentence stands at that crossroads, trying to domesticate overwhelming feeling by giving it definitions - while smuggling in the era’s gendered power assumptions as if they were natural law.

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Edward Gibbon (April 27, 1737 - January 16, 1794) was a Historian from England.

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