"I urge you to hold fast to your standards. I plead with you not to waver"
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The phrase “hold fast to your standards” does subtle work. “Standards” sounds cleaner than “rules” and more personal than “doctrine,” suggesting an inner code you already own. That framing reduces resistance: if the standards are yours, obedience can feel like integrity rather than submission. “Hold fast” adds a physical metaphor, implying something worth clinging to in rough weather. The weather, in Monson’s world, is modernity: a culture of flexible values, shifting norms around sexuality, media, consumption, and self-definition. The line assumes the listener is being tugged by forces that don’t announce themselves as evil, just normal.
“Not to waver” is the tell. Wavering is not framed as exploration or growth but as a failure of steadiness. The subtext is that certainty is a virtue and ambivalence a vulnerability. Coming from a Latter-day Saint leader speaking to members (often youth) in a rapidly pluralistic America, this becomes identity maintenance: a reminder that belonging requires boundary-keeping, especially when the surrounding world offers social rewards for loosening those boundaries.
The rhetorical power is its emotional economy: two short sentences that convert anxiety about change into a simple moral posture - stay steady, and you stay safe.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monson, Thomas S. (n.d.). I urge you to hold fast to your standards. I plead with you not to waver. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-urge-you-to-hold-fast-to-your-standards-i-plead-159779/
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Monson, Thomas S. "I urge you to hold fast to your standards. I plead with you not to waver." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-urge-you-to-hold-fast-to-your-standards-i-plead-159779/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I urge you to hold fast to your standards. I plead with you not to waver." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-urge-you-to-hold-fast-to-your-standards-i-plead-159779/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.



