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"I used to be good friends with my depression, saying oh I'm so depressed, or life is terrible"

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Curtis frames depression like an old drinking buddy: familiar, performative, almost companionable. That’s the sting in “good friends.” He’s not romanticizing mental illness so much as exposing a coping style common to celebrity culture and everyday life alike: turning pain into a persona you can introduce at parties. The quoted self-talk - “oh I’m so depressed, or life is terrible” - has the cadence of a rehearsed line, the kind you repeat until it stops sounding like an emergency and starts sounding like branding.

Coming from an actor whose public image traded on charm and polish, the admission reads like a backstage confession. Hollywood’s classic era rewarded control: the smile that hits its mark, the narrative that stays tidy. Naming depression as a “friend” suggests a psychological workaround for that system. If you can banter with it, you don’t have to confront how much it’s running the show. There’s also a quiet critique of how suffering can become social currency - a way to signal depth without risking vulnerability, because the misery is packaged as a quip.

The intent, then, is distancing: he’s describing a past version of himself who used depressive language as both shield and script. Subtext: he’s learned that constant self-deprecation isn’t honesty; it’s rehearsal. In an era when male stars were rarely encouraged to talk plainly about mental health, Curtis manages a tightrope move: he admits to despair while also indicting the performance of despair, a double awareness that feels unusually modern.

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Curtis, Tony. (2026, January 16). I used to be good friends with my depression, saying oh I'm so depressed, or life is terrible. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-good-friends-with-my-depression-117604/

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Curtis, Tony. "I used to be good friends with my depression, saying oh I'm so depressed, or life is terrible." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-good-friends-with-my-depression-117604/.

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"I used to be good friends with my depression, saying oh I'm so depressed, or life is terrible." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-good-friends-with-my-depression-117604/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Tony Curtis (June 3, 1925 - September 29, 2010) was a Actor from USA.

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