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Motivation Quote by Billie Jean King

"I used to be told, if I talked about my sexuality in any way, that we wouldn't have a tennis tour"

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The threat in Billie Jean King’s line is chilling because it’s delivered in the casual grammar of “I used to be told” - as if the policing of her identity was just another routine coaching note. But the content is pure institutional blackmail: stay silent about who you are, or we’ll take the whole sport away. Not her endorsements, not her ranking - the tour itself. That scale is the tell. It exposes how fragile women’s professional tennis once was, and how quickly power brokers were willing to sacrifice it to protect straight respectability.

King’s intent isn’t confession for its own sake; it’s a receipt. She’s documenting the terms under which women athletes were allowed to exist publicly: you can compete, even dominate, as long as you don’t disrupt the fantasy that female athleticism is palatable, marketable, and safely heterosexual. The subtext is that “the tour” was never just competition. It was a brand built to soothe sponsors, networks, and gatekeepers who wanted women to play like revolutionaries and behave like debutantes.

Context matters here because King didn’t just win matches; she helped build the very infrastructure people threatened to dismantle - from the Virginia Slims Circuit to the push for equal pay. Her sexuality wasn’t a sidebar to that story; it was the pressure point where progress could be stalled, careers could be erased, and an entire league could be held hostage. The line lands today as a reminder that “don’t make it political” has always meant “don’t make us accountable.”

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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Billie Jean. (2026, February 19). I used to be told, if I talked about my sexuality in any way, that we wouldn't have a tennis tour. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-told-if-i-talked-about-my-sexuality-47600/

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King, Billie Jean. "I used to be told, if I talked about my sexuality in any way, that we wouldn't have a tennis tour." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-told-if-i-talked-about-my-sexuality-47600/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I used to be told, if I talked about my sexuality in any way, that we wouldn't have a tennis tour." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-be-told-if-i-talked-about-my-sexuality-47600/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Billie Jean King

Billie Jean King (born November 22, 1943) is a Athlete from USA.

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