"I used to get quite upset that I'd make friends with a guy or a girl and then within the space of three years we'd move and go and live somewhere else, and you'd have to say goodbye to that person"
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The phrasing does a lot of work. “Quite upset” understates the emotional charge, a conversational shrug that suggests he’s learned to downplay the wound because dramatizing it never stopped the next goodbye. “A guy or a girl” widens the net: this isn’t a singular heartbreak but a repeating pattern, a series of attachments cut short by logistics. He doesn’t blame anyone; the antagonist is the family itinerary, the impersonal machinery of relocation that turns people into chapters.
As an actor whose adult life is also organized around temporary sets, touring publicity, and job-to-job reinvention, Monaghan’s recollection doubles as origin story. The subtext is that mobility can build adaptability and social ease, but it also leaves you fluent in hellos and clumsy with permanence. The sadness isn’t just missing someone; it’s the suspicion that stability is something other people get to treat as normal.
Quote Details
| Topic | Long-Distance Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monaghan, Dominic. (2026, January 15). I used to get quite upset that I'd make friends with a guy or a girl and then within the space of three years we'd move and go and live somewhere else, and you'd have to say goodbye to that person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-get-quite-upset-that-id-make-friends-143561/
Chicago Style
Monaghan, Dominic. "I used to get quite upset that I'd make friends with a guy or a girl and then within the space of three years we'd move and go and live somewhere else, and you'd have to say goodbye to that person." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-get-quite-upset-that-id-make-friends-143561/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I used to get quite upset that I'd make friends with a guy or a girl and then within the space of three years we'd move and go and live somewhere else, and you'd have to say goodbye to that person." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-get-quite-upset-that-id-make-friends-143561/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






