"I used to go around looking as frumpy as possible because it was inconceivable you could be attractive as well as be smart. It wasn't until I started being myself, the way I like to turn out to meet people that I started to get any work"
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The subtext is about credibility tax. In her telling, attractiveness doesn’t just attract attention, it reroutes it. If you’re “pretty,” you’re assumed to be lightweight; if you lean into polish, you’re presumed to be playing a role off-camera, too. The word “inconceivable” matters: this isn’t one bad casting director, it’s a prevailing logic, a prejudice so embedded it feels like common sense.
Then she flips the story, not with a makeover montage but with a boundary: “being myself” and “the way I like to turn out” frames presentation as agency, not bait. It’s also pragmatic. She’s not claiming the industry stopped objectifying her; she’s saying she stopped auditioning for its approval by shrinking. Ironically, the work came when she refused the defensive performance of “seriousness.” In a culture that sells authenticity while policing women’s bodies, her lesson is sharp: the costume that reads as credibility can be just another mask, and it often costs more than it pays.
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Zeta-Jones, Catherine. (2026, January 15). I used to go around looking as frumpy as possible because it was inconceivable you could be attractive as well as be smart. It wasn't until I started being myself, the way I like to turn out to meet people that I started to get any work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-go-around-looking-as-frumpy-as-possible-140116/
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Zeta-Jones, Catherine. "I used to go around looking as frumpy as possible because it was inconceivable you could be attractive as well as be smart. It wasn't until I started being myself, the way I like to turn out to meet people that I started to get any work." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-go-around-looking-as-frumpy-as-possible-140116/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I used to go around looking as frumpy as possible because it was inconceivable you could be attractive as well as be smart. It wasn't until I started being myself, the way I like to turn out to meet people that I started to get any work." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-go-around-looking-as-frumpy-as-possible-140116/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









