Skip to main content

Wit & Attitude Quote by Frances Farmer

"I used to lie between cool, clean sheets at night after I'd had a bath, after I had washed my hair and scrubbed my knuckles and finger-nails and teeth. Then I could lie quite still in the dark with my face to the window with the trees in it, and talk to God"

About this Quote

There is a quiet daring in how Farmer makes ritual feel like resistance. The scene is almost aggressively ordinary: bath, hair washed, nails scrubbed, teeth clean. But the piling up of specifics reads less like vanity than like purification-as-armor, a way to earn stillness in a life that rarely granted it. Clean sheets and scrubbed knuckles are not aesthetic details; they’re proof of agency. In a world that handled her body, her reputation, and eventually her mind as public property, the ability to decide what touches her skin becomes a private kind of power.

Then she turns her face to the window. That small pivot matters. She doesn’t pray in a posture of obedience, eyes folded inward; she orients toward trees, toward something living and indifferent to celebrity and scandal. The dark becomes protective rather than frightening, a place where performance ends. “Talk to God” lands deliberately casual, conversational, not churchy. It implies a relationship built on candor, maybe bargaining, maybe confession, maybe just the relief of being heard without being judged.

Farmer’s biography shadows every word: a talented actress who collided with Hollywood’s machinery and paid for her noncompliance, later mythologized through stories of institutional abuse. Read against that backdrop, this isn’t quaint spirituality. It’s a snapshot of the one room where she could be clean, quiet, unacted-upon, and still herself. God, here, doubles as an imagined witness - a counter-audience that won’t twist her into a headline.

Quote Details

TopicPrayer
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Farmer, Frances. (2026, January 15). I used to lie between cool, clean sheets at night after I'd had a bath, after I had washed my hair and scrubbed my knuckles and finger-nails and teeth. Then I could lie quite still in the dark with my face to the window with the trees in it, and talk to God. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-lie-between-cool-clean-sheets-at-night-160194/

Chicago Style
Farmer, Frances. "I used to lie between cool, clean sheets at night after I'd had a bath, after I had washed my hair and scrubbed my knuckles and finger-nails and teeth. Then I could lie quite still in the dark with my face to the window with the trees in it, and talk to God." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-lie-between-cool-clean-sheets-at-night-160194/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I used to lie between cool, clean sheets at night after I'd had a bath, after I had washed my hair and scrubbed my knuckles and finger-nails and teeth. Then I could lie quite still in the dark with my face to the window with the trees in it, and talk to God." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-used-to-lie-between-cool-clean-sheets-at-night-160194/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Frances Add to List
Frances Farmer quote on ritual and faith
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

USA Flag

Frances Farmer (September 19, 1913 - August 1, 1970) was a Actress from USA.

14 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

Daniel J. Boorstin, Historian
Daniel J. Boorstin