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Time & Perspective Quote by Mary Lou Retton

"I usually don't mind giving autographs, but when hundreds of folks with paper and pen start coming at you, it's time to seek shelter"

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Retton’s line captures the weird physics of fame: it’s flattering until it becomes a stampede. As an athlete, she’s supposed to embody accessibility, the wholesome champion who signs for kids and smiles for cameras. She even opens with that expected generosity: “I usually don’t mind,” a disarming preface that protects her from sounding ungrateful. Then she snaps the frame into something closer to a survival story. “Hundreds of folks” turns admiration into a mass, and “paper and pen” reduces the crowd to a single repetitive demand. The fans aren’t villains, but they’re no longer individuals either; they’re a wave.

The key phrase is “start coming at you.” It’s not “asking” or “waiting” but advancing, shifting the autograph from a gift to a claim on her body and time. “Seek shelter” lands with a darkly comic bluntness: celebrity as weather event, the public as a storm system. That’s the subtext athletes often can’t say outright: attention is labor, and unchecked access feels like danger even when it’s love.

In the context of Retton’s era - peak American gymnastics celebrity, post-1984 glow, lots of public appearances and a tightly managed image - the quote reads like a boundary smuggled into a joke. It acknowledges the fans’ excitement while insisting, plainly, that adoration doesn’t cancel out personal space.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Retton, Mary Lou. (2026, January 16). I usually don't mind giving autographs, but when hundreds of folks with paper and pen start coming at you, it's time to seek shelter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-dont-mind-giving-autographs-but-when-88648/

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Retton, Mary Lou. "I usually don't mind giving autographs, but when hundreds of folks with paper and pen start coming at you, it's time to seek shelter." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-dont-mind-giving-autographs-but-when-88648/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I usually don't mind giving autographs, but when hundreds of folks with paper and pen start coming at you, it's time to seek shelter." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-dont-mind-giving-autographs-but-when-88648/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Lou Retton (born January 24, 1968) is a Athlete from USA.

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