"I usually make up my mind about a man in ten seconds, and I very rarely change it"
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The gendered choice of "a man" matters. Thatcher rose in a culture that treated leadership as male territory, then beat it at its own rhetorical game: assessing men, not being assessed by them. There’s steel in the phrasing, but also a quiet acknowledgment of the room she operated in. She’s not talking about people in the abstract; she’s talking about male colleagues, rivals, ministers, union leaders, foreign heads of state - the kinds of figures who expect negotiation to be a long courtship of ego. Her message: you won’t wear me down.
"I very rarely change it" is the sharper edge. It signals consistency, yes, but also warns against the fantasy that access or argument will soften her. The subtext is transactional: you get one shot at credibility. That plays neatly with the Thatcher-era emphasis on discipline, hierarchy, and personal responsibility - virtues framed as moral clarity.
The risk is embedded too. Ten-second judgments can be strategic clarity or stubborn prejudice; the line dares you to admire the former while ignoring the latter. It works because it turns a potential flaw into a brand: conviction as velocity.
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Thatcher, Margaret. (2026, January 17). I usually make up my mind about a man in ten seconds, and I very rarely change it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-make-up-my-mind-about-a-man-in-ten-25734/
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Thatcher, Margaret. "I usually make up my mind about a man in ten seconds, and I very rarely change it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-make-up-my-mind-about-a-man-in-ten-25734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I usually make up my mind about a man in ten seconds, and I very rarely change it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-usually-make-up-my-mind-about-a-man-in-ten-25734/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.








