"I value mothers and motherhood enormously. For every inattentive or abusive mother in my fiction, I think you'll find a dozen or so who are neither"
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The intent isn’t to deny the existence of monstrous mothers in his fiction; it’s to insist that they’re not the whole picture, and not even the dominant one. “Inattentive or abusive” are charged descriptors, the kind that flare up a reader’s indignation. Trevor concedes them, then counters with “a dozen or so who are neither,” an offhand ratio that suggests an unglamorous majority: women doing the daily, morally complicated labor of raising children without sainthood or scandal. That “neither” matters. He’s not promising angelic mothers, just mothers who aren’t reduced to cruelty as a plot device.
Contextually, Trevor wrote in a tradition (Irish, Catholic-tinged, family-saturated) where motherhood is both revered and policed. His fiction often anatomizes domestic life with surgical restraint; pain shows up, but so does endurance. The subtext is a defense of realism: attentive mothers rarely drive plots because competence doesn’t explode. Trevor is asking to be read with adult vision, where care can be present without being sentimental, and where a writer can depict harm without secretly endorsing it.
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Trevor, William. (2026, February 17). I value mothers and motherhood enormously. For every inattentive or abusive mother in my fiction, I think you'll find a dozen or so who are neither. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-value-mothers-and-motherhood-enormously-for-104691/
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Trevor, William. "I value mothers and motherhood enormously. For every inattentive or abusive mother in my fiction, I think you'll find a dozen or so who are neither." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-value-mothers-and-motherhood-enormously-for-104691/.
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"I value mothers and motherhood enormously. For every inattentive or abusive mother in my fiction, I think you'll find a dozen or so who are neither." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-value-mothers-and-motherhood-enormously-for-104691/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








