"I volunteered for this life, wanted it and am not going to bitch about it now that I've got it"
About this Quote
The profanity isn’t just swagger; it’s a rhetorical discipline. “Bitch” snaps the sentence shut, policing a boundary between legitimate suffering and performative grievance. Cornwell isn’t denying hardship. He’s denying the luxury of narrating yourself as a victim of your own ambitions. The subtext is anti-romantic: wanting a life - fame, adventure, artistry, even family - includes wanting its costs, or at least accepting them without theatrical indignation.
Contextually, this reads like the writer’s version of a warrior ethos. Novelists, like the heroes Cornwell often depicts, choose a life that’s part obsession, part grind: long solitude, public judgment, the constant pressure to produce. The quote functions as self-management and as a quiet rebuke to a culture that prizes choosing your path while also rewarding complaint as a form of authenticity. Cornwell’s stance is harsher, cleaner: agency means accountability, even when the dream stops feeling like one.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cornwell, Bernard. (2026, January 17). I volunteered for this life, wanted it and am not going to bitch about it now that I've got it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-volunteered-for-this-life-wanted-it-and-am-not-37580/
Chicago Style
Cornwell, Bernard. "I volunteered for this life, wanted it and am not going to bitch about it now that I've got it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-volunteered-for-this-life-wanted-it-and-am-not-37580/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I volunteered for this life, wanted it and am not going to bitch about it now that I've got it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-volunteered-for-this-life-wanted-it-and-am-not-37580/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




