"I want a man who's kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire?"
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The subtext is a shrewd critique of what society expects women to trade for security. In a culture that routinely told actresses to marry well and smile through it, Gabor makes the bargain explicit, then demands better terms. She’s not apologizing for wanting a rich partner; she’s mocking the idea that affluence should excuse emotional stinginess. If he can buy the house, surely he can afford a little empathy.
Context matters: Gabor’s public persona was built on glamour, multiple marriages, and a kind of self-aware “continental” mischief that let her say what others couldn’t without being punished for it. The line plays like a defense and an indictment at once - a knowing nod to gold-digger stereotypes, paired with a refusal to accept that the rich get to be unbearable. It’s comedy with teeth: she sells you a fantasy, then uses it to expose how impoverished certain real-world relationships can be.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Inspirational Quotes For All Occasions (Bangambiki Habyarimana, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781304343147 · ID: nXm6BQAAQBAJ
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... I want a man who's kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire? ~Zsa Zsa Gabor Part of the reason that men seem so much less loving than women is that men's behavior is measured with a feminine ruler. ~Francesca M ... |
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Gabor, Zsa Zsa. (2026, March 1). I want a man who's kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-a-man-whos-kind-and-understanding-is-that-15072/
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Gabor, Zsa Zsa. "I want a man who's kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire?" FixQuotes. March 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-a-man-whos-kind-and-understanding-is-that-15072/.
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"I want a man who's kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire?" FixQuotes, 1 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-a-man-whos-kind-and-understanding-is-that-15072/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.










