"I want to be a big, fleshy voluptuous woman with curves. I want a big bum, but I don't have one"
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The subtext is less “I’m insecure” than “I’m trapped in a template.” She’s naming a desire that’s culturally approved in the abstract (the mythic hourglass) but punishable in practice when it shows up as actual mass, actual softness, actual gravity. That’s why “I want a big bum” matters: she’s calling out the way femininity gets carved into isolated features you’re supposed to acquire, edit, and display, like upgrades. The kicker - “but I don’t have one” - turns the fantasy into a small, almost absurd grief: even a rich, famous actress can’t simply opt into the body currently being marketed as ideal.
Contextually, it reads like a pre-Kardashian-era tell, when “curvy” was rising as a buzzword but thinness still ruled red carpets and casting. Today, the line also anticipates the strange body-politics economy of modern celebrity: aspirational “thickness” paired with relentless control, where the message is not acceptance, but customization. Diaz’s honesty is the point; it exposes how quickly “body positivity” can become another demand.
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Diaz, Cameron. (2026, January 17). I want to be a big, fleshy voluptuous woman with curves. I want a big bum, but I don't have one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-be-a-big-fleshy-voluptuous-woman-with-50531/
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Diaz, Cameron. "I want to be a big, fleshy voluptuous woman with curves. I want a big bum, but I don't have one." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-be-a-big-fleshy-voluptuous-woman-with-50531/.
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"I want to be a big, fleshy voluptuous woman with curves. I want a big bum, but I don't have one." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-be-a-big-fleshy-voluptuous-woman-with-50531/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






