"I want to be distinguished from the rest; to tell the truth, a friend to all mankind is not a friend for me"
About this Quote
The subtext is a jab at fashionable benevolence in polite society, where being seen as generous can matter more than being good. A friend to everyone is often a friend to the room: agreeable, strategic, never risking the awkward intimacy of a real bond. The speaker wants something sharper - loyalty that implies choice, and choice that implies judgment. Underneath the bravado is an anxiety about being interchangeable: if you are loved by all, you are needed by none.
As a playwright working in the courtly ecosystem of Louis XIV, Moliere knew how easily social life curdles into performance. His comedies thrive on the gap between public virtue and private motive: the hypocrite, the fop, the moral grandstander. This line sits right in that tradition, poking at the era's emerging ideal of the cosmopolitan, universally amiable man. It is less misanthropy than quality control: a demand that friendship mean something costly - partial, specific, and therefore real.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Moliere. (2026, January 15). I want to be distinguished from the rest; to tell the truth, a friend to all mankind is not a friend for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-be-distinguished-from-the-rest-to-tell-6857/
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I want to be distinguished from the rest; to tell the truth, a friend to all mankind is not a friend for me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-be-distinguished-from-the-rest-to-tell-6857/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.








