"I want to be like the patron saint of reality"
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“Reality” here isn’t just facts; it’s the unvarnished emotional weather Apple has built a career on: messy desire, anger that refuses to be cute, self-scrutiny that doesn’t resolve into a moral. Her songs often feel like they were written in real time, as if the ink is still wet. Calling herself a patron saint reframes that compulsive honesty as service. Not confession for confession’s sake, but a refusal to collude with the polite fictions we use to get through parties, relationships, interviews, whole eras.
The cultural context is an industry that routinely rewards women for performance over personhood: be relatable but not too raw, complicated but not inconvenient. Apple’s line pushes back against that bargain. It’s also a sly admission of power. Saints don’t just suffer; they attract followers. Apple knows that radical candor creates its own kind of devotion, and she’s willing to bear the cost of being the one who won’t let the room pretend.
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