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Daily Inspiration Quote by Nastassja Kinski

"I want to feel good, I want to feel proud, I want to feel that I give someone enough and that I get enough"

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There is no mysticism in Kinski's wish list, just a blunt accounting of emotional labor. "Feel good" and "feel proud" land like the baseline asks of someone who's spent time being looked at for a living: not adored, not mythologized, simply allowed to inhabit her own self-respect. The repetition of "I want" isn’t poetic flourish so much as insistence. It reads like someone rehearsing boundaries out loud because the world - and especially the film world - trains women to negotiate their needs quietly, to be agreeable, to accept imbalance as romance.

The pivot is the almost transactional symmetry of "enough": "that I give someone enough and that I get enough". It's not cold; it's corrective. Kinski frames intimacy as an exchange that can be measured, which hints at past relationships (personal or professional) where the meter was running in only one direction. "Enough" also dodges the grand, punishing language of forever or soulmate. It's the vocabulary of survival and adulthood: not maximal passion, but sustainable reciprocity.

Context matters. Coming of age in a 1970s-80s European cinema that fetishized youthful openness, Kinski was often cast as the luminous object of someone else's longing. This line quietly reverses that camera angle. The subtext is agency: stop asking what she inspires; start asking what she receives. In a culture that romanticizes over-giving as feminine virtue, her demand is almost radical in its modesty.

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Kinski, Nastassja. (2026, January 16). I want to feel good, I want to feel proud, I want to feel that I give someone enough and that I get enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-feel-good-i-want-to-feel-proud-i-want-90079/

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Kinski, Nastassja. "I want to feel good, I want to feel proud, I want to feel that I give someone enough and that I get enough." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-feel-good-i-want-to-feel-proud-i-want-90079/.

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"I want to feel good, I want to feel proud, I want to feel that I give someone enough and that I get enough." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-feel-good-i-want-to-feel-proud-i-want-90079/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Nastassja Kinski (born January 24, 1959) is a Actress from Germany.

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