"I want to say to you, Help yourself, so you can help someone else"
About this Quote
The second clause flips the first from personal improvement into civic ethic. Brown doesn’t sanctify self-care as an end state; he frames it as a tool. That matters in a Black American cultural context where “helping someone else” often isn’t abstract charity but mutual aid, family responsibility, and community uplift in the face of institutions that historically refused to help at all. It’s also a sly rebuke to performative virtue: you don’t get credit for rescuing people if you’re crumbling yourself.
The line works because it compresses a whole philosophy of resilience into a conversational push. Brown’s voice (even on the page) implies urgency, not contemplation. He’s not asking for perfection, just competence - enough stability to extend your hand without needing someone else to hold you up.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brown, James. (n.d.). I want to say to you, Help yourself, so you can help someone else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-say-to-you-help-yourself-so-you-can-133006/
Chicago Style
Brown, James. "I want to say to you, Help yourself, so you can help someone else." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-say-to-you-help-yourself-so-you-can-133006/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I want to say to you, Help yourself, so you can help someone else." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-want-to-say-to-you-help-yourself-so-you-can-133006/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.











