"I wanted out of my pain and that silliness, but I wanted an easy out. That's before realizing that there is no easy out. Before accepting that you just have to do the work"
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The pivot from “I wanted” to “before realizing” marks the real subject here: not suffering, but bargaining. “An easy out” names the cultural script we’re trained to chase, especially around mental health and celebrity - the idea that relief arrives as a breakthrough moment, a product, a radical cleanse, a single brave confession. Hemingway’s subtext is that the craving for ease can become its own trap, a way of staying stuck while feeling like you’re searching.
Context matters because she’s not speaking from abstract theory. As a public figure from a family synonymous with both artistic achievement and visible self-destruction, her resistance to melodrama reads as hard-won. “Accepting” is quietly radical: it frames recovery less as triumph than as consent to reality. The final line, “you just have to do the work,” lands like a demystification of healing. No montage, no magic. Just repetition, patience, and the unsexy discipline of showing up when you’d rather be rescued.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hemingway, Mariel. (2026, January 15). I wanted out of my pain and that silliness, but I wanted an easy out. That's before realizing that there is no easy out. Before accepting that you just have to do the work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-out-of-my-pain-and-that-silliness-but-i-155510/
Chicago Style
Hemingway, Mariel. "I wanted out of my pain and that silliness, but I wanted an easy out. That's before realizing that there is no easy out. Before accepting that you just have to do the work." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-out-of-my-pain-and-that-silliness-but-i-155510/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wanted out of my pain and that silliness, but I wanted an easy out. That's before realizing that there is no easy out. Before accepting that you just have to do the work." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-out-of-my-pain-and-that-silliness-but-i-155510/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











