"I wanted to be a ballerina. I changed my mind"
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Cleary came of age when girls were handed a narrow menu of "acceptable" fantasies, and ballerina sits there like a glossy stereotype of disciplined femininity. By naming it, she nods to the cultural script; by dropping it without apology, she quietly mocks the idea that early longing is a lifelong contract. The sentence break does real work: the first line is all aspiration and softness, the second is blunt agency. That period is a tiny door slam.
The subtext reads like a manifesto for her fiction. Cleary wrote children who were allowed to be changeable, contradictory, sometimes wrong, and still worthy of attention. Ramona doesn’t become lovable by being consistently charming; she becomes real by being unpredictably herself. In that light, "I changed my mind" is less about ballet than about permission: permission to outgrow a fantasy, to disappoint an imagined version of yourself, to choose a life that fits better than the one that photographs well.
It’s also a writer’s origin story in miniature. Ballerina is performance; author is observation. Cleary’s genius was noticing the everyday and treating it like it mattered. Changing her mind is how she found her subject.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cleary, Beverly. (2026, January 17). I wanted to be a ballerina. I changed my mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-be-a-ballerina-i-changed-my-mind-44651/
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Cleary, Beverly. "I wanted to be a ballerina. I changed my mind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-be-a-ballerina-i-changed-my-mind-44651/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wanted to be a ballerina. I changed my mind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-be-a-ballerina-i-changed-my-mind-44651/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




