"I wanted to look at them because I feel, internally, that I am an ordinary person who has had an extraordinary life"
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The emotional engine is the tension between “ordinary” and “extraordinary.” He doesn’t deny his achievements; he relocates them. The extraordinary part is his life, not his essence. That distinction matters for an actor whose career was built inside an industry and a country eager to turn Black success into either a comforting symbol or an impossible standard. Poitier was repeatedly cast as “the first,” “the exception,” “the representative.” Saying he feels “internally” ordinary is a defense against that kind of cultural conscription: a reminder that the icon is still a person with private doubts, habits, and limits.
The intent is grounding, but the subtext is survival. Looking at the audience becomes a way to stay human in a situation designed to dehumanize through adoration. It’s also a subtle claim of agency: I’m not just being seen; I’m choosing how to see, and therefore how to remain myself.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Poitier, Sidney. (2026, January 18). I wanted to look at them because I feel, internally, that I am an ordinary person who has had an extraordinary life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-look-at-them-because-i-feel-22784/
Chicago Style
Poitier, Sidney. "I wanted to look at them because I feel, internally, that I am an ordinary person who has had an extraordinary life." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-look-at-them-because-i-feel-22784/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wanted to look at them because I feel, internally, that I am an ordinary person who has had an extraordinary life." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wanted-to-look-at-them-because-i-feel-22784/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

