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"I wanted to make a movie about the arbitrary nature of love"

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Lyne’s phrasing is deceptively modest: “wanted” softens what is, in practice, a provocation. “Arbitrary” isn’t just a theme; it’s a dare to the audience’s need for moral accounting. In Lyne’s cinema, desire rarely arrives as a tidy meet-cute or a values-aligned choice. It hits like weather. Calling love arbitrary reframes it from something we earn or rationally select into something that happens to us, often at the worst possible time, with the least appropriate person, under the most combustible conditions.

The line also smuggles in a critique of how movies typically launder romance into destiny. Lyne’s signature is the glossy adult thriller and the erotic drama, genres built on the suspicion that passion is less a foundation than an accelerant. When he invokes arbitrariness, he’s defending the mess: attraction that ignores compatibility, ethics, even self-preservation. That’s not nihilism; it’s a cinematic strategy. If love is random, then the characters can’t hide behind “true love” as an alibi. They’re exposed, reactive, improvising meaning after the fact.

Context matters: Lyne came up in an era of post-sexual-revolution storytelling where autonomy and appetite were newly center-screen, then collided with backlash and moral panic. His films often stage that collision. “Arbitrary nature” becomes a way to talk about power, risk, and self-deception without sermonizing. It’s the romantic myth punctured by a pin made of satin and dread.

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Adrian Lyne (born March 4, 1941) is a Director from England.

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