"I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic psychoanalytic realism: what we call "confidence" is often a fragile arrangement of external props. When those props wobble, so do we. Freud's phrasing makes "within" sound less like a pep talk and more like a location you've neglected, a room in your own house you keep forgetting to enter. "It is there all the time" is the crucial addendum. Not "you can create it", not "you can manifest it", but you can recover access to it. That's a subtle but radical claim, because it suggests strength isn't a performance or a reward; it's a capacity that survives even when you don't feel it.
Context matters: Freud worked amid war, exile, and the emerging science of the mind, and she focused on defenses and development - how the psyche learns to cope. The intent here is corrective: stop treating security as something the world grants you, and start treating it as something you can recognize, practice, and return to.
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| Topic | Confidence |
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Freud, Anna. (2026, January 18). I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-always-looking-outside-myself-for-strength-21191/
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"I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-always-looking-outside-myself-for-strength-21191/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










