"I was as impatient about finding my dream man as I was about everything else I wanted"
About this Quote
The word “impatient” does the real work. It undercuts the era’s preferred script for women, which rewarded waiting: waiting to be chosen, waiting for the right proposal, waiting for life to begin. Young swaps that passivity for urgency. It’s a small linguistic rebellion, insisting that wanting love can look like wanting a career, a role, a life with momentum.
There’s also a wink of self-critique. Impatience isn’t glamorized; it’s presented as a lifelong trait, almost a minor flaw she’s learned to narrate with charm. That self-awareness keeps the quote from sounding like entitlement. Instead, it feels like someone who knew how to play the game of public femininity while privately keeping score.
Culturally, it lands as a bridge between two myths: the studio-era fantasy of the “dream man” and the modern reality that women chase, curate, and sometimes hustle for what they want. Young makes that hustle sound honest, even a little mischievous.
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| Topic | Soulmate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Young, Loretta. (2026, January 17). I was as impatient about finding my dream man as I was about everything else I wanted. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-as-impatient-about-finding-my-dream-man-as-72289/
Chicago Style
Young, Loretta. "I was as impatient about finding my dream man as I was about everything else I wanted." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-as-impatient-about-finding-my-dream-man-as-72289/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was as impatient about finding my dream man as I was about everything else I wanted." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-as-impatient-about-finding-my-dream-man-as-72289/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










