"I was born, for instance, incapable of appreciating music"
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The phrasing matters. "For instance" makes the claim sound almost throwaway, as if she’s listing benign facts about her wiring. That casualness is the provocation: she treats aesthetic noncompliance the way she might treat a data point. And "born" is doing rhetorical heavy lifting. It preempts the usual sermon - that she merely lacked cultivation, or that proper training would sweeten her into the acceptable mold. No, she implies, the instrument is not defective; it’s tuned differently. The subtext is a defense of intellectual legitimacy on her own terms, against a culture that policed women’s minds through their "sensibilities."
Coming from an astronomer, the remark also reads like a quiet manifesto for empirical temperament. Mitchell is staking a claim that the self isn’t obligated to be well-rounded in the ways society demands. You can map the heavens, teach, compute, observe, and still fail the salon test. The line works because it’s blunt without being bitter: a small sentence that refuses to apologize for a life organized around precision rather than performance.
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mitchell, Maria. (2026, January 16). I was born, for instance, incapable of appreciating music. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-for-instance-incapable-of-appreciating-97106/
Chicago Style
Mitchell, Maria. "I was born, for instance, incapable of appreciating music." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-for-instance-incapable-of-appreciating-97106/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was born, for instance, incapable of appreciating music." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-for-instance-incapable-of-appreciating-97106/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.

