"I was born in Jackson, Mississippi, in 1969, in a time and place where no one was saying, 'Look how far we've come,' because we hadn't come very far, to say the least. Although Jackson's population was half white and half black, I didn't have a single black friend or a black neighbor or even a black person in my school"
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The real force comes in the arithmetic of “half white and half black” colliding with the zero of her experience. Stockett doesn’t describe hatred; she describes absence. Not one friend, not one neighbor, not one classmate. That repetition is a drumbeat, turning segregation from an abstract “system” into a practical daily reality: the machine worked so well it produced a childhood with no interracial intimacy at all. The subtext is uncomfortable by design: for white Southerners, segregation didn’t always feel like violence. It could feel like normalcy, even innocence. Her list punctures that innocence by showing how carefully it had to be curated.
As a novelist, Stockett is also staging her own authority problem. By foregrounding the limits of her proximity to Black life, she frames her later interest in racial experience as something born from a vacuum - and invites readers to question whether witnessing a segregated world equips someone to narrate what it did to those excluded from her school, her street, her circle.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stockett, Kathryn. (2026, January 16). I was born in Jackson, Mississippi, in 1969, in a time and place where no one was saying, 'Look how far we've come,' because we hadn't come very far, to say the least. Although Jackson's population was half white and half black, I didn't have a single black friend or a black neighbor or even a black person in my school. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-in-jackson-mississippi-in-1969-in-a-91981/
Chicago Style
Stockett, Kathryn. "I was born in Jackson, Mississippi, in 1969, in a time and place where no one was saying, 'Look how far we've come,' because we hadn't come very far, to say the least. Although Jackson's population was half white and half black, I didn't have a single black friend or a black neighbor or even a black person in my school." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-in-jackson-mississippi-in-1969-in-a-91981/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was born in Jackson, Mississippi, in 1969, in a time and place where no one was saying, 'Look how far we've come,' because we hadn't come very far, to say the least. Although Jackson's population was half white and half black, I didn't have a single black friend or a black neighbor or even a black person in my school." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-in-jackson-mississippi-in-1969-in-a-91981/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






