"I was born when you kissed me. I died when you left me. I lived a few weeks while you loved me"
About this Quote
The craft is in the brutal arithmetic. Three sentences, three states of being, and the middle one lasts “a few weeks” - not years, not “a while,” but a timeframe so small it stings. That choice makes the romance feel less like destiny and more like a high that burns fast and leaves damage. It’s not sentimental; it’s controlled, even a little accusatory. “You” does all the violence here: you kiss, you leave, you love. The speaker is reduced to a dependent tense, alive only by someone else’s verb.
As an actor’s line (and a star persona built on hard edges), it lands because it refuses soft-focus devotion. It’s melodrama with a straight face, a tough guy allowing one extravagant truth: the emotional stakes are life-sized, even if the time was small. The subtext is the real noir engine - love as the one thing that makes him feel real, and the terror that without it he’s just going through motions, already ghosted.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bogart, Humphrey. (2026, January 17). I was born when you kissed me. I died when you left me. I lived a few weeks while you loved me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-when-you-kissed-me-i-died-when-you-69624/
Chicago Style
Bogart, Humphrey. "I was born when you kissed me. I died when you left me. I lived a few weeks while you loved me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-when-you-kissed-me-i-died-when-you-69624/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was born when you kissed me. I died when you left me. I lived a few weeks while you loved me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-born-when-you-kissed-me-i-died-when-you-69624/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









