"I was drawn to things I thought were either sexy or aggressive - or both"
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Clayton’s phrasing is also tellingly adolescent in the best way: “things I thought were” signals a self-awareness that attraction is partly performance, partly projection. He’s not claiming a fixed truth about what is sexy or aggressive; he’s describing a mindset, a chosen lens. That makes the quote less about kink and more about identity formation. For a musician coming up in the post-punk-to-arena-rock pipeline, “aggressive” carries the charge of rebellion and noise, while “sexy” promises charisma and access. Put them together and you get an aesthetic that sells: danger you can dance to.
The subtext is that art-making, especially in a band ecosystem, often begins as appetite. Not refined taste, not theory - appetite. Clayton’s candor demystifies that origin story, then quietly defends it.
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"I was drawn to things I thought were either sexy or aggressive - or both." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-drawn-to-things-i-thought-were-either-sexy-41702/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.







