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Life & Wisdom Quote by Oliver Goldsmith

"I was ever of the opinion, that the honest man who married and brought up a large family, did more service than he who continued single, and only talked of population"

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Goldsmith slips a moral dagger into an Enlightenment parlor game: it is easy to pontificate about “population” when you are insulated from the mess and cost of actually sustaining lives. The line is built as a clean contrast between the “honest man” who marries, labors, and raises “a large family” and the airy bachelor who “only talked.” That last phrase is doing the heavy lifting. It frames demographic debate as a kind of fashionable chatter, the sort of abstract “improvement” talk that lets elites sound public-spirited without changing their own habits.

The intent is partly patriotic and partly class-coded. In 18th-century Britain and Ireland, population growth was commonly treated as a proxy for national strength: more workers, more soldiers, more commerce. Goldsmith is skeptical of the discourse but not necessarily of the goal. He’s arguing for virtue measured in consequences, not vocabulary: service is embodied, domestic, repetitive. The “honest man” becomes a quiet civic hero, turning private life into public benefit.

The subtext is also a rebuke of performative reform. Goldsmith’s era teemed with pamphleteers and coffeehouse theorists proposing remedies for poverty, idleness, and decline. Against that, he offers a stubbornly unglamorous metric: are you shouldering responsibility, or outsourcing it to rhetoric? It’s a conservative argument with a populist edge, casting family-making as real work and demographic theory as a status performance.

There’s an irony, too: by praising the man who doesn’t “talk,” Goldsmith is, of course, talking. The line flatters action while thriving on the pleasures of satiric judgment.

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Goldsmith, Oliver. (2026, January 15). I was ever of the opinion, that the honest man who married and brought up a large family, did more service than he who continued single, and only talked of population. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-ever-of-the-opinion-that-the-honest-man-who-11104/

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Goldsmith, Oliver. "I was ever of the opinion, that the honest man who married and brought up a large family, did more service than he who continued single, and only talked of population." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-ever-of-the-opinion-that-the-honest-man-who-11104/.

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"I was ever of the opinion, that the honest man who married and brought up a large family, did more service than he who continued single, and only talked of population." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-ever-of-the-opinion-that-the-honest-man-who-11104/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Oliver Goldsmith (November 10, 1730 - April 4, 1774) was a Poet from Ireland.

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