"I was hanging out with no one under 21. I thought that if I really wanted to fit in I had to... show them that I was in a way just as adult as they were, 'cause I could hold my own just as well as they could, if not better"
About this Quote
The subtext is a familiar celebrity-adjacent trap. When your life is already public, childhood stops being a protected category and becomes a liability. You don’t just want to be included; you want to be un-clockable. The ellipsis after “had to...” reads like a self-censoring pause, the moment where the speaker recognizes how bleak the strategy is while still validating it. He’s describing the beginning of adultification: the pressure to meet grown-up standards before you’ve built the inner scaffolding to handle them.
Context matters because “adult” in this quote isn’t wisdom, responsibility, or autonomy. It’s the adult social world’s currencies: tolerance, toughness, access, maybe drinking, maybe risk. Osbourne isn’t claiming maturity so much as adopting its props. The line lands because it exposes a cultural myth we keep selling to young people: that respect is earned by acting older, even when “older” just means more damaged, more numb, more practiced at pretending you’re fine.
Quote Details
| Topic | Youth |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Osbourne, Jack. (2026, January 18). I was hanging out with no one under 21. I thought that if I really wanted to fit in I had to... show them that I was in a way just as adult as they were, 'cause I could hold my own just as well as they could, if not better. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-hanging-out-with-no-one-under-21-i-thought-12045/
Chicago Style
Osbourne, Jack. "I was hanging out with no one under 21. I thought that if I really wanted to fit in I had to... show them that I was in a way just as adult as they were, 'cause I could hold my own just as well as they could, if not better." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-hanging-out-with-no-one-under-21-i-thought-12045/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was hanging out with no one under 21. I thought that if I really wanted to fit in I had to... show them that I was in a way just as adult as they were, 'cause I could hold my own just as well as they could, if not better." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-hanging-out-with-no-one-under-21-i-thought-12045/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






