"I was in love once, and it was terrible"
About this Quote
The phrasing also matters. “Once” shrinks a supposedly life-defining experience into a single bad season. It’s not “I loved,” it’s “I was in love,” a passive construction that frames love less as a choice than as something that happened to her, like weather. That subtle grammar shift turns romance into an affliction: you don’t chase it, you survive it.
Trevi’s cultural context sharpens the edge. Her career has lived in the glare of pop spectacle and personal controversy, where the public feels entitled to treat a woman’s private life as content. This line plays defense. It offers just enough vulnerability to feel real, then slams the door with humor and finality. The subtext isn’t that love is always awful; it’s that her love story isn’t available for consumption. In a genre that monetizes yearning, Trevi weaponizes disillusionment, turning “terrible” into autonomy.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Trevi, Gloria. (2026, January 15). I was in love once, and it was terrible. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-once-and-it-was-terrible-126344/
Chicago Style
Trevi, Gloria. "I was in love once, and it was terrible." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-once-and-it-was-terrible-126344/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was in love once, and it was terrible." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-once-and-it-was-terrible-126344/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








