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Marriage Quote by Sam Sheppard

"I was in love with my wife and she was in love with me. We got along wonderfully"

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It reads like a lullaby written with the curtains already drawn. Sam Sheppard’s line is disarmingly plain, almost stubbornly domestic: love, mutual love, harmony. But the simplicity is the tell. In Sheppard’s famous case - the 1954 murder of his wife, Marilyn, and the sensational trial that followed - every sentence about their marriage isn’t just memory; it’s strategy. The diction (“wonderfully”) feels picked for the jury box, not the diary: soft-focus, wholesome, impossible to argue with unless you’re willing to sound cruel.

The intent is repair. Sheppard isn’t only describing a relationship; he’s trying to reassert a version of himself the public can recognize as non-threatening: a husband in a stable, reciprocal bond. That reciprocal phrasing (“I was in love... she was in love...”) matters. It preemptively counters the cultural suspicion baked into the case: that a marriage with cracks might supply motive. Mutuality becomes alibi-adjacent.

The subtext hums with what’s left unsaid. No texture, no details, no acknowledgement of conflict - which is exactly what makes it feel like a shield. In a story defined by tabloid intrusion and a community eager for a narrative, the quote offers an aggressively normal counter-narrative. It’s less a portrait of intimacy than a bid for credibility: if the marriage was “wonderful,” then the violence must belong to an outsider.

Context turns the line into a pressure point. A scientist trained to trust evidence is forced into the theater of public emotion, where “wonderfully” has to do the work that facts can’t.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sheppard, Sam. (2026, January 16). I was in love with my wife and she was in love with me. We got along wonderfully. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-with-my-wife-and-she-was-in-love-118151/

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Sheppard, Sam. "I was in love with my wife and she was in love with me. We got along wonderfully." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-with-my-wife-and-she-was-in-love-118151/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was in love with my wife and she was in love with me. We got along wonderfully." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-in-love-with-my-wife-and-she-was-in-love-118151/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Sam Sheppard (December 29, 1923 - April 6, 1970) was a Scientist from USA.

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